In order to be a good parent to our children we must be able to place them (and their needs) at the centre of our world. This will involve at times ensuring that our own needs are meet in order that we may then met theirs. However, if as children we have not had this experience in our relationship with our own parents it is very difficult for us to move out of the way and allow the next generation into this position i.e. if we have not had our turn as the central characters in the family play it is very hard for us to step back into a supporting role.
The Britsh CBT & Counselling Service
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